All the king's men....
God is a very loving God! Sometimes in our lives there are things missing & people missing. So what God does is sometimes He can put people in our lives to make up for what was missing. My wife's father wasn’t in her life much, but her aunt’s husband many times filled the shoes & was “like a Dad” to her. God does this so we don’t grow up fragmented & broken.
Sometimes when the youth don’t have Dad at home for whatever reason, it effects how they grow up & their mentality. Lack of affirmation & identity can make effeminate young men, & help create emasculate or promiscuous young ladies. The youth need a father at a young age for guidance because youth get influenced by a whole slew of mess, from perverted-minded adults providing perverted media on T.V. & in magazines, etc. to fake news with its propaganda & lies to video games introducing the occult, magic, satanism, etc. Men, in our place, make a world of difference in society.
Ladies, what does your choice of man look like? Are you waiting & trusting God for a husband? Well, you won’t find a strong, God-fearing, self-respecting man at any of the holes & hot-spots, that’s for sure, unless he’s there on a Godly assignment. Don’t you want your husband to be a real man? The father of your children to be a real man? You may say that if Dad wasn’t, then how can I know what one is? Trust, someone you know of in your family, neighborhood, school or place of worship is/was probably a great roll-model. If not, what man in your world demonstrates Godly character? You won’t always see him in a church, but he exists.
Both men & women alike today get in a habit today of disrespecting these kinds of men because they too were children with no man modeling real Character. How can you pattern what you’ve had no reference to? The younger women (and men) call each-other ‘bitch’ & have a certain level of respect for the older women that respect themselves, while they regard older men as boys, maybe from the disrespect they received from guys & no affirmation from their fathers. Meanwhile, younger dudes showing little or no regards for older men but seeing them as their ‘equal’. Don’t seek to destroy what could help mend society. Men, in our place, make a world of difference in society.
And men, if we could appreciate the gifts in each-other, we could really help each-other.
I’ll probably update this more, if time permit.
